EQUIANA
The Power of Mare Medicine for Women Coming of Age
A Women’s Workshop
Women. We roar. We purr. We rant and
rave. We give penance to faith, brace against fate,
harbour our secrets and fight the good fight. Above
all, we aim to please, keep the peace and strive to
submit to the higher good.
We are the daughters of mothers, cultural
clones. Managers and empaths, we learn to diminish the
“me” and exalt the “we,” suppress
our dreams and accept our lot in life. We pray for “the
one” and kowtow to love. Then, when push comes
to shove, we martyr ourselves, shape-shift at will,
and play victim when there’s no way out.
We are seekers. Of a fresh approach,
a new perspective, an honest take that doesn’t
pull any punches, has no agenda, hits the mark, and
brings goose bumps to our skin. A tall order that lays
bare the shelf of trustworthy two-legged souls.
Alas. We seek solace in the one to
whom we can pour our heart, confide our fears, knowing
in our bones it will stay between us. The one whose
eyes tell of enduring sorrows, who never once feels
sorry for itself. The one who lifts our spirits, shoulders
our tears, suffers our ignorance, and humbles us with
forgiveness.
Yes, our horses. Beasts of burden.
Pets of pleasure. We may love them. We may fear them.
Either way, they are entwined with our psyche, a totem
women cannot ignore. Their vulnerability is dangerous,
their needs transparent. They tug at our heartstrings,
give rise to our romance, and leave us dreaming of all
we desire.
And we turn to our mares. Our muses,
our mirrors, our compass, our conscience. A mare will
fuel our passion, try our patience, coax our courage
and put us through our paces should we aspire to meet
her needs. In the blink of an eye, she will read us
like a book. She cannot be tricked. She cannot be fooled.
She will not bow or bend to our will until we have gone
the distance and are there for her. Not the other way
around.
Every mare keeps her own counsel with
a mind very much her own. Without airs, without pretense,
she will cut to the chase and do her job. Without fanfare
or fuss. Without kudos or applause. There is no threat
she won’t take on, no bluff she won’t call.
She doesn’t think twice. It is simply her calling.
To see our world through her eyes –
really see it, without romantic illusion or rose-colored
wishful thinking – is to open a portal, glimpse
the secrets deep inside our own soul. Her lessons are
our grounding, our divining rod, nourishing our souls
and shedding light on the human condition.
When you see eye to eye with a mare,
the pathway is private, the dialogue personal. Your
connection will have its own resonance, its own epiphanies,
its own rhythm and blues. A mare does not lump us all
into one category. She is an individual, just as you
are. She will see you in your own right, and tell you
what she thinks in no uncertain terms. What is revealed
is profoundly moving. What is revealed will usher in
changes you never imagined.
This is EQUIANA. Workshops for women.
Journeys into yourself with time devoted to you. To
finding your joy. To finding your voice. The power of
mare medicine knows no bounds. Women coming of age are
coming into their own. You will find no pity party.
No blame game. No bitch fest. These are not just pretty
words on a page. We will aim for what’s true -
for the heart of the matter. All that matters. And stay
very, very real.
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